I think you and your ex are being taken advantage of IMO. If your ex works 6 days a week - doesn't sound fair. Does A.J. have a job - I think he needs to learn how to survive on his own - pay his own bills, cook his own meals and do his laundry. Hugs to you (((radio flyer))). I feel bad for saying what I said because I don't want to hurt your feelings - but I know you don't deserve to be treated this way.