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Old Jan 17, 2011, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted by sugahorse View Post
She's trying to help me not be so hard on myself. And naturally to learn the necessary skills.

I wish I could just be confident and happy within my own company.

And when I hear the word 'care' - it really kind of triggers me. It's something I just to feel and believe so badly.
This is good stuff Suga. It is great what your therapist is working on with you.

I keep hearing you want the finish line so badly without having to travel the distance to get there. I think that this adds to your distress actually, distressing over what you need to do? Or distressing at where you are in life?

I can see how the word "care" could trigger you. Do you still need to process the lack of care that you have suffered from?
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Thanks for this!
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