I hate the "not logical" as if that's the only/best way to view a situation or, sometimes, like it has anything at all to do with a situation! I don't have too much trouble with my feeling bad when he uses these or similar arguments though; I feel bad for him that he used these or similar arguments, is not "bright enough" to to be more balanced

and feel like I have to educate him (see argument for "You're Missing the Point").