Ive been with my bf for over 2 years now and we have a beautiful daughter together. Hes a great guy and all but this whole double standard thing is driving me nuts! His family hates me because he tells them all sorts of crazy stuff. Our roommate which is his best friend is always inviting him out to chill with his friends but he always says hes "not allowed" but in reality im the one trying to get him out and do things a talk to someone other then me.. He always tells his family that hes trapped in this house (meaning I dont let him go anywhere) when its always been him saying that he doesnt "feel" like going out. So i have to deal with all the negativity and nasty comments about how im a controlling inconsiderate person when hes the one lieing about me to make it look better on his part. Hes always lieing about stupid little things and then im the one to blame.. Im not allowed to talk to anyone or go out and hang out with my friends with out him saying "if you leave dont plan on coming back here". Whatdoido?