January,
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. The safety and security of a home is so important. It's a basic human need. I would be terribly frightened if that were threatened. And I'm sorry that your father's plan for your security did not come to be. I can't imagine how betraying that must have felt.

You're in my thoughts. I'm glad you're taking active steps to deal with the letter.

As Dorie from Finding Nemo says, "Just keep swimming."

gg