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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months. Throughout the time we have been sexually active. He started changing though not wanting to have sex as often or feeling bad after we have had sex saying that he was taught all his life that sex was on for making children. Basically his mom and her lessons were in his head. He kept saying that he knows that he loves me and that it should be ok to have sex with the person you love and that he wanted to get help. Well he never did and about a month ago he decided that he wanted to be abstinent until he is married. This upset me because its not that sex is everything in a healthy relationship but it is a part of it. I dont believe that we were doing anything wrong by having sex. He is set in his mind about this decision. How do I handle him making a life decision for me? I dont feel that its fair to do so, but I want to be with him. Marriage is no where in sight. How do I get him to understand me and how do I deal with such a change in our relationship?
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