Try to find someone new. I wouldn't normally say that, but in this case:
1. you don't have a history of jumping from one therapist to the next
2. you still seem very uncomfortable with him even after six months of therapy
3. there seem to be serious external things hampering the therapy. (Like you working for his wife.)

Therapy's so hard. It's hard enough when there's only internal issues hampering it. But adding in all those external complications must make it so much more of a struggle.

Also, therapists are generally supposed to ask "How is therapy going?" I don't know what kind of therapy you are doing, but my understanding is that therapists generally do go over process sorts of things. That's actually supposed to be an important part of therapy.

I don't know. If it were me, I'd be looking for another T.

-Far