Thanks Boodles for your comments. I agree that revenge and anger will only escalate the situation. I went over and spoke to him yesterday. Having forgotten where this thread was, I wrote about it in the Coping with Emotions section. He was nearly silent, his expression was blank mixed with scorn. No apologies, explanations, or agreement to stop. It was creepy. While it angered me all the more, I didn't yell or get nasty, but I definitely communicated my displeasure at his utter disregard. I asked the name of his plow man. He actually said, "I don't know his name", and closed his door in my face.