thanks for the input u all.... but this wasn't a phone session, i'm soo sorry i couldnt be more clear with everyone... this was just a phone call that didn't last more then 2 minutes or so because i was afraid i was inconviencing her...i was just calling her because of everything i've been writing here on pc, about my transition out of therapy, into school...i didn't really say much to her because i felt like she didnt want to be bothered ...hmmm...also because i usually email her and went from doing it once a week toooo not doing it all for a little over a month and i wanted to keep it that way...so i could not be sooo attached, so i figured a phone call could be a new option this time.