i gotta reply to this one cause i have DID and this makes me angry. all your parts matter, and i think your t is just scared to say that they matter and want to put less emphasis on your parts, the parts that make up YOU , they are all important and deserve the same respect youd give any other human being. a lot of t's just dont get it. your t should have asked you what that part of you wants to say. its like your t wants you to have control over your parts, but while in the security of therapy, your t should allow your parts to open up even if it makes you have no control , thats what t is a safe place to let stuff out safely. all parts of you deserve respect and no t should ever tell you they dont