He is 30.. This was supost to be his "starter home". I was to be only until he got on his feet, as in, finding a job, so that he could take over. My job here, which I wanted to do, was help fix up the house and do yard work. But the wall he put a hole in is one of the walls I've just painted in the basment. He also half broke the frame to his bedroom door from slamming the door when he gets mad. The doors and frames upstairs are only a year old. The old doors were a mess so I mentioned to AJ's dad how ugly they were and he replaced all the doors n frames upstairs. Cost more to put the frames up than buying the doors n frames.

Don't know why i mentioned all of that. Not sure it is important. I do need some "peace" . Enough is enough. It is starting to wear and tear on my health.. I feel and look awful...time to get tough, I agree. I honestly can't it anymore. I just know I was out on my ears when I was l6 and with child at that. Nobody put up with me, but then I never acted out or expected anyone to put up with me...