Off topic...kinda:

Just a quick welcome to our newest member, snagapuss! Be warned... there's lots of hugging and support here

Nola, you are more than welcome... feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk

Sundog, my dentist will prescribe me valium to take before I come in to help with the anxiety (course then you have to have someone to drive you and pick you up... man was he mad when I drove myself last time)

I'll be back later with my do-rights it's still early.... although I did get up at a reasonable time today (9:30 an hour before my alarm went off).