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Old Jan 18, 2011, 12:22 PM
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I just talked to AJ's dad and he is soo upset. He said he couldn't sleep last night. He said he was fixing the house for AJ to have a home to get married and have a family. He said he is killing himself for what?? He said AJ never calls him to see how he is or even ask what he can do to help him. He said the only time AJ calls is when he wants something. He said is fed up.. He also said he is going to tell the 2 renters to leave and rent the upstairs to a family. Nobody has paid their rent yet this month. He said he did everything wrong..and if AJ wants to party and drink let him go live with his friends or wherever. He said he won't do it anymore. ....He is coming over tonight and talk again to AJ and to the one renter. And then call the other renter to come get his "stuff". He has only been paying a portion of the rent since he moved with his parents. And he pays when he feels like it so AJ's dad wants him to leave too.....................

When AJ's dad saw the damage from AJ's rage, especially the new toaster oven, he lost it. He works hard, long hours, and to see it thrown away/damaged made him sick.....He thought he was doing a good thing trying to help AJ get a good start in life and it all backfired.. Even I thought I was doing a good thing by doing the work around here to improve the house...We both wanted AJ to have this house to have a life and a family.... Not destroy and drink his life away......I feel bad for AJ's dad as he feels like he has failed when all he wanted to do was help.....So there is no turning back now... He said he'd call the police if AJ didn't leave........

What a sick, sinking feeling it is to watch someone you love waste their life! I told AJ's dad we are doing the right thing and that I am behind him all the way. It still hurts. But "progress" can be painful. But in the long run, hopefully well worth it.......

I don't have much more to say..

Not that this is of importance, I just wanted to say to please overlook all the "spelling errors" and all other errors, which are many, as my fingers were typing faster than my brain. Is embarrassing seeing so many errors.But then I am not the "smartest rock in the box" either ... shrugs shoulders
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