(((((radio flyer))) - I'm sorry it's a painful and emotional time for you. It's good you and your ex are on the same page. You're such a nice lady and you don't deserve to be in this postion. It's time for A.J. to go on his own - hopefully it will make a man out of him. I don't think he truly appreciates all that you and your ex have done - he's slacking off.

I feel sorry because just a while back you were so proud of the painting you did. It's not fair that he ruins what you work so hard to fix. The mother bird has to push her babies out of the nest at some point - yes it's a tough thing to do, but necessary for him to survive and take some responsibility.

It would be good when you're feeling stronger, to look at why you've held on for this long? A.J can't take advantage unless you both let him - which means you also need to look inward. It's going to be okay and you deserve peace and stability.