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Jan 18, 2011, 01:41 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ If these couple of things are just a tip of the iceberg, and he does stuff like this ALL the time, I'd surely wonder what was up!!  I'd think of a couple of things. One -- either he has a girlfriend, or Two - he's terribly depressed about something.
First, I'd ask him what the heck was bothering him, and I wouldn't let it go until he told me. Something tells me that he IS depressed and there IS something behind all this. Maybe he feels overwhelmed by the bills cause he's the only one working ~ who knows. You don't say how old he is ~ since you two have only been married for 3 years, I assume you're in your twenties. Men are pretty immature in their twenties and he might be feeling "put upon" because he has to support the family. Boohoo.  If that's the case, he's going to have to grow up! But you may have to help him ~ just sit him down and calmly talk to him about what's up.
I really don't think there's anyone else -- you'd be the first to know. lol You'd see signs of it -- funny phone calls at all hours, he'd disappear for hours and you wouldn't know where he was, etc.
So just start communicating. Maybe you haven't been doing that lately. Get him talking - you'll find out what you need to know. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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