ugh! i can completely relate and identify. I am always afraid of that too. Believe it or not - your words do not make such a huge impact - i know that to YOU the feelings you describe are painful or disturbing...and i can feel you because i am going through the same all the time. When i read whatever it is what you write it is not disturbing at all. You are the one who is angry - for reasons that many can understand.


we are not angry. You have said nothing but what hurts you. And the same things hurt many others in these forums.These are clear and simple tings - but when feeling like this - its nice to have a reminder.