Welcome Chris. I've been on lamictal since May, 2010 and have had no hair loss or sexual side effects. I'm on 300 mg/day 150mg am and pm. I started at 25 mg and worked up from there. I'm also on 300 mg of wellbutrinXL (I suffer more with depression). I was diagnosed in 2007 and am happy with the lamictal. Hope lamictal helps you.