Deb...there is the possibility that this young man is troubled..yes...but I think he is bluffing. Still, keep up your guard, of course. Usually people who go into detail and tell you this and that are just bluffing. He wanted to scare you and it worked. Notice he's not at your door now. I think if he really meant the threat...you would not be on the computer now. I would say to you...try to stay as cool as you can. This way if, perchance, he did pull something..you will have your wits about you. Keep us posted, Kiddo!!