How are you all able to balance boundary setting with alters/parts and showing them that they matter? The part that I am referring to is one that is generally very angry and overwhelmed, but also seems to be very hurt and sad. I want to be careful not to add to that since she seems to carry a lot of pain. At the same time, I was confused when T said that I was the most important one, etc. I will probably have to ask T exactly what she meant by this, but how much do you give to your parts and when do you put yourself as a priority?
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