I get where you're coming from but opposite. My bf and I are the opposite and it's all about being out going in my case. My bf is not very out going and talks softly, kinda shy etc... Whereas if I'm sitting next to someone for more than 5 minutes I most likely know their entire life story lol

We both went into a pizza place, he was told there were no openings and I was hired on the spot. Just because I went in informal and was joking around with them. I don't know if your situation is the same but that's what it comes down to for us. So he gets upset when we are both looking for jobs and I get offered positions that he doesn't.