I'm sad that people are standing in the way way of your efferts to get better. How frustrating!
It's the hardest thing for me to do, I'm the biggest pleaser in the world, but I have to say it was great when I was able to agree with someone, "Yes, this IS all about me," "Yes, I AM being selfish, my life depends on it now." And you know what? Sometimes, it's OK!
Just do it!
DJ
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Peace,
DJ
"Maturity is nothing more than a firmer grasp of cause and effect."
-Bob
"and the angels, and the devils,
are playin' tug-o-war with my personality"
-Snakedance, The Rainmakers
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