I won't work with a Pdoc I am intimidated by. My Pdoc is so down to earth and actually more supportive than my T in many ways.I was a little put off actually at first.... she dresses funny, has bright mahogany red hair she dyes herself, calls everyone hun and blasts country music. Now that I am used to it I just adore her.
I met once with a Pdoc who was intimidating. We didn't mesh too well and ended up in a fight over weather I wouldn't see her or if she wouldn't work with me. lol
If it were me I would try and find a new Pdoc you are more comfortable with... they are out there.