No, your not expecting too much if she isn't listening, and showing you that she cares about your situation. I guess i just feel that if she wasn't listening then there would have been no med changes for you, i mean the fact that she has changed your meds after describing side effects seems like listening..to me..Anyways it is a personal choice, and maybe this first pdoc will be able to be more of what your looking for, i sure hope so. Good luck!