Maybe establishing communication with your aunt if she's trustworthy would be a good idea.
It's odd that you are equating being yourself with selfishness. Ultimately, living for you and being comfortable in your own skin is of utmost importance. Having such a taxing issue weigh on you day in and day out will ultimately take a toll on your relationships anyhow. The answer may lie in something as simple as making a pros and cons list.
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Rise up above it, high up above it and see.
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