Ok now onto M and how things started with her. She was in an abusive relationship for approx 3 years with a much older guy. He had kids with different women, one of which is my father's wife's daughter. (I know my father and he is Not my Dad--my dad died this year...just to let you know I don't claim him. I guess I should also say that none of us claim our mother as our mom, we call her by her first name and she is like an aunt--our grandmother raised us. My sisters and I all have 'different' moms and dads that we claim, ok? Our father's side of the family is synonymous with drunk, so we tend to keep seperate from them socially.) Well, M started hanging out with some drug users and got into it, she quit eventually, but started drinking alot instead. She met and hooked up with a guy named J, who happens to be our first cousin. We all knew this, so it wasn't like they didn't know when it happened, but they went ahead anyway. They became a couple, and my sister M ended up pg as well. She was about 3 months behind N in pregnancy...

to be continued again...