Hello Butter05
Please remember that no matter what else happens suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. With my experiences in life I have found that if you want someone else to change you have a problem. There is only one person you can change and that is yourself. You can't make him change anything unless he wants to change himself. If you truly believe that he wants to change as a person than love him and support him because it will be difficult for him. If you don't think he wants to change you have to love yourself more than you love him and let him go. Get on with your life and up yourself first. You can't be a great friend, wife, love, parent or anything else to anyone until you start loving yourself. Keep your chin up and hopefully things will get better for you soon.
Annie
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