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Jan 20, 2011, 02:43 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Dearheart, marriage is supposed to be a PARTNERSHIP. You don't have that ---you are basically living alone. You might as well be. What do you REALLY have?? You don't have much in the bedroom; you don't have anyone to talk to; you have someone to do the laundry ~ that's IT. What kind of a life is this? 
I'm glad you're both in therapy, but is the therapy helping your husband at all? It doesn't sound like it. I imagine he's one of those that thinks it's a waste of time, right? Sounds like my ex. The therapist said something negative to my ex and he got up and left - he never went back. Typical for him. 
I guess all I can say is you have to make the decision. If you're willing to stay with a man that makes YOU do everything, while he lolls around on the couch, or if you're going to find someone who will treat you the way you DESERVE to be treated. I don't know if you're going to kill yourself working as hard as you do, or if it will help you live to 100. lol But you're not having any FUN doing it!!!  You need a partner in marriage -- not baggage. God bless, and take care. Hugs, Lee
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