I have noticed that because of the fact that I have no real sence of self and no idea who I really am I'm able to adapt to everyones persnoality and belief system, even if it is just a way to make them think I "relate" to them and I know how they feel or what there going through. i am an expert lier, I can minpulate anyone and any situation to go my way. I try to avoid doing this usually but I"ve realized I do it all the time at work. I should get a raise, I save my company so much money in complaints and lawsuits, not to mention all the return buisness they get because all my patients love me! ( just trying to look at the bright side of being BPD)