thank you for the reply leefygreetree

she was assessed by a pediatric Dr who specializes in adhd and autism, his so called assessment was to talk to us in his office while watching out of the corner of his eye my DD draw pictures and interact with her brother which ended in her thumping him.
and he sent questionnaires too the school and that is it, he was the one who gave me the results but i was not given any paperwork, charts or anything just verbal.

I have been on 4 parenting courses and one of them included my DD attending and doing things separately and together too. no medical has ever been done to check for anything else either.

can children with adhd have long periods of calm behavior in and out of school, with no major tantrums?