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I DO ask him what is wrong, tell him this is how "I' feel when you do or don't do this etc but still, same boat. Sinking fast.
midnight just wanted to reply to your response.. i meant to use the "I feel" without pointing out "when he does or doesn't do something." the suggestion is like this:
i feel sad cause i feel we are slipping apart.
i feel sad... etc
i feel ignored and don't know what to about this.
i feel happy when you hug me so tight. i feel confused about this cause i don't know why i feel i can't connect with you in other ways. i miss that connection with you.
idk if my suggestions will help you with this but i did want to clarify that the focus needs to be about your feelings rather than attaching it to his behavior. does this help, idk.
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