The note was an excellent idea
Sometimes writing a note, can be a huge success, their is no facial contact, showing an emotion that either one may get put off with. It may also allow the reader to realize the importance of the issue(s) involved. Like the old saying goes, "Put it in writing". . . ha!ha!
All joking aside, that was a good idea, over the years my husband and I never did well when it came to talking about money and budgets, etc. I'd always feel accused of spending money foolishly, when he really wasn't getting too much on my case, but some times he was!! But he does remark that I have been "very good" (must be my meds, ha!ha!)
Take care,
"darkeyes"