unfortunately, my brother is going through the deal where he thinks he is Bi. Honestly, I don't know if you are born a certain way or not, but I don't agree with people who decide to turn Bisexual. It's a denial of reality. Men and Women were meant to be together. Sure, we may have an intimate relationships with the same sex, but that doesn't mean we need to consemate a relationship with sex. Sometimes we confuse intense spiritual/intellectual connections with a desire to phycically unite. But I am not one, so maybe I don't understand.