Yeah i can defineatly take partial blame for that one. My sister did it from a place of love i think. She told her because she wanted my mom to know that it's really inappropriate to say things like. My mother has a history of saying inapropriate things, she once made my 9 year old neice try on an outfit she had bought (it was too small) and she says to my other sister "wow j sure is getting chunky". Like who says something like that in front of a 9 year old girl. Girls have enough negativity about thier bodies, from t.v, magazines and other media even peers...i mean..your own home (family) is suppose to support you...not tear you down. My 9 year old niece thinks...that she is fat...she cry's....she wants to go on a diet....it breaks my heart. In truth...she is underweight and in my opinion being set for an eating disorder.

wow sorry kinda went off there lol..sorry anyways i forgive my sister, because i did not specifically tell her not to say anything, i assumed she wouldn't so i can't really fault her.