She didn't tell her cousin/boyfriend that she was pg, because he didn't want any more kids. (he has 2 or 3 kids by 2 women) So she didn't eat so she wouldn't gain weight, wouldn't take her prenatals so he wouldn't see them, and continued to party (drinking and smoking cigs and pot) so he would think she wasn't pg. She lied when he asked outright if she was pg, finally told him during 7th month of pg. They had a fight, about her lying and not getting her birth control shot when she was supposed to. He never said anything about her drinking/drugging while pg with his child. During her whole pregnancy she told all of us that she didn't want the baby--and hoped someone would take it (she continued to call her it even when she found out the baby was a girl). A baby would get in the way of 'her relationship' as well as the partying they did. She told the baby, while it was still unborn, that she didn't want it and it was a mistake, a problem. There were some of us who said we would take her when she was born...me and my husband, my brother and his wife, my aunt. She said she didn't care who took her, she didn't want her.

to be continued