Thanks everyone. Today has been a crappy day and coming here to find support means a lot.
I worry most about my son (he was not a group decision) and finances. The part that is starting to emerge more is about 19 and just not mature in some ways.
T says she won't work with parts but she does seem to favor the new one so I don't have her for support. Massage therapist is better and knows the parts but I am so afraid to lean on her. She seems too good to be true and I don't want the illusion to end.
The other problem is that the part that is taking the lead is easily manipulated into having sex and we have a "not safe" person in our life. He manipulated her once and then purposely triggered her once to get his needs met.


Thanks