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Originally Posted by ECHOES
Do you think he deserves to feel humiliated for his behavior? If he does feel humiliation, then that's good and it's how he is acknowleding the inappropriateness of the behavior. Making mistakes is how we learn the things we must learn.
A child falls many times as he is learning to walk.
This is something he needs to go through so he can possibly come out the other side of it, and be the person he wants to be, if he wants that.
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I agree with this so much. When we love someone, or even HAVE loved someone, it's so hard to sit back and allow them to experience the consequences of the things they've done...but truly, it's how we learn. You are not responsible for his feelings...he is responsible for his actions, and whatever feelings result from those. You are only responsible for keeping you and your daughter safe, and you are taking steps to do that.
What an AWFUL day you had. Just. WOW. I know that the thought of losing your job is scary, but you have to take care of yourself.
Can you take this one moment at a time? Not looking too far ahead, just at the next step on the path. You can't control what will happen in a few months, but you can control what happens right now, and right now, you need to take care of your health and your safety.
Thinking of you and sending
