I am soooo glad you have the objectivity to realize the failings and context of the people/and situation surrounding your dilemma (this is absolute B.S for u to suffer this).I would be absolutely nutz from this situation. Can you speak with social services...or a disability lawyer...and acquire a case worker who can be an advocate with/for you?What state/country are you in? Lets put our heads together and figure out a way to give you a strong voice to get your needs met.This is sooo typical of the system to function in this manner.Not always but very common,for various reasons.