Agree with Pt52, at some point you have to take care of what is happening to you regardless of what he thinks. Thats hard for us to do because we mistrust ourselves so much, it's hard to remember what we feel, if we really saw what we thought we saw, if things were really so bad, but, generally, we did, and they were. This is frightening stuff, and if there is one thing that particularly frightens a lot of people it is the loss of control that mental illness stand for in their eyes. It is easier to deny it than admit that yes, it can happen. It sounds like the less said about it to him, the better, at least for the time being. Give him some time and break it to him slowly. HUGGGSSSSS