I think this is more of a vent.....

In my husband and my group of friends there is two couples who recently got engaged and are planning weddings with in the next 3 years. Another couple recently became pregnant. (Then there's us and another couple who got married 2-3 years ago; and a few single guys in our group.) We all know about the upcoming weddings and pregnancy...everyone has equally shared their congrats with the 3 couples. Now, I went to dinner yesterday with one of the engaged couples and the couple expecting. The 'father to be' ranted about how his news is so much more imporant then getting married, and that the other engaged couple needs to realize this....and that u'll never know until you have a child, blah blah blah. (This is the first couple to have a kid in our group.) I just like stared at tim, and was like both getting married and having a kid are important events...... (and the weird thing is they didn't even tell anyone in the group they were pregnant, we found out on facebook- and these are people we stood up at their wedding, hang out with them when everyone's schedules allow, etc.) I just couldn't believe the father to be trying to make it into a contest.