Your husband's comments seem ignorant and obnoxious to me, rather than hurtful. They would not make me anxious or upset but rather angry. I would have asked him to go back to the car to wait on the first one, not waited for there to be more. It is plain bad behavior in an adult. I hope you are learning to be more assertive rather than having to run to the bathroom to take a breather; he's the one who needs the time out, like a child? It doesn't have anything to do with being emotional/logical and different styles. His behavior is not appropriate, period.