well do you not like being that way? just because society tells us we need to be social and everyone has to like us doesn't mean it's wrong...personally i love that people stay away from me..they are scared of me actually have had quite a few people say that. i don't feel that need for stimuli and most people bore me. distance can be wonderul and you never get dissapointed,..but if you feel like this is hindering you in any waybest place to start up getting to know people is starting a class or hobby where you meet people with similair interests