thankyou both, i used to laugh about it Lee, but after bumping downstairs like an 18 month old for two years, knocking a door frame out and building a ramp myself, and crying every night through the sheer exhaustion as i pull myself upstairs to bed i have ran out of laughter, this is not funny anymore, its a living nightmare! Unfortunately i am not in the USA, i am in 'not so great' Britain!, i have a care manager who i see for an hour once a month, but all she says is she understands i am frustrated and that i have to be patient and that she doesn't know the answers to my questions!!! I am talking to a lawyer tomorrow, hopefully this will help as talking with my local member of parliment councillor , head of mental health and head of physical health in my borough, and the minister for health in parliment have not achieved anything! mainly because my care team tell each one what they want to hear rather than what is actually happening with my care!
(((((((((((((((((hugs to you both)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) x