She increased my seroquel for now - I think I am going to stop the birth control. Having a huge discussion with the husband about how I don't really need it since we don't really do anything anyway....Fantastic right? That just makes me feel so much better (that's sarcastic btw)
And Seroquel, although great for sleep, made me gain about 20 lbs when I first started it, so I have a love/hate relationship with it. I've tried to go off of it 2x with bad results, so I stay on a low dose of it. and now begrudgingly said we can raise it, but I'm thinking getting off the birth control is a better idea.

Sorry if i'm rambling and thank you everyone for the kind words and thoughts - I just came in from talking to him and saw everyone had written and it's so nice. thank you.