If it's the birth control. Then stop it. That's your decision mostly, not his. There are many other methods that can be used if needed. Your mental well being is far more important than whether the wants you on the pill. And yes, Seroquel is good and bad. I gained 40 pounds and was so drugged down on it. It made my depression worse. It might do the same to you. I am now off it and feeling better.