It isn't necessary for someone to be punished because you can't find a T. That isn't a punishable 'offence' (well, it isn't even an offence at all!) But truly - no punishment is necessary. I know how utterly frustrating it is when you can't find anyone to help (I gave up after a while here where I am, but that's okay because I don't feel a pressing need for therapy right now).

Have you ever heard of a woman named Kathy Broady? She has a website and a blog roll and does therapy over the internet I think. I've read some of her stuff and she seems to have a good handle on severe trauma and DID issues. That might be worth a try in the interim until someone comes up locally for you.