HAHAHA! BP... looks like your mind is "fuzzy" too... or has everyone taken on bear characteristics? hehehe That's okay. Some confusion is allowed, especially this time of year.

Your advise was very good mixed with lots of caring, so I'm going to accept it.
Yep! It's time I got in my son's in-law's face. Would you believe I'm old enough to be
their mother and they think they can lord it over me!! Oops... I forgot that people don't respect their "elders" anymore.

Oh, well... that aside, they are still overstepping their bounds.
As for "abusing" my child??

He'd be the first to tell me where to get off! He's as strong, stubborn and has the strength of his convictions as his mother!

Only difference is that he's "whipped"

and I'm not. LOL Nah... in reality, it's that he's trying
so hard to make his marriage work, so he tries really hard to make as few waves with his wife as he can.
But we
are leaving today for his place and we're staying through Christmas Day at the very least. He was making noises like he expects us to stay through the weekend. Like we don't see enough of each other! LOL He only lives 45 minutes away from us!

That's my "baby"!

However, I've been trying to not rehearse my speech to my son's father-in-law too much. Don't need to obsess, do I?
Ahhhh... it will all work out... somehow.
Wise men still seek Him.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.