Thanks Sabby. Right now I am trying really hard to manage it myself. My T keeps talking about how I am always putting things off on others (outside of me) so I am trying really hard not to. I must admit though that I have no clue what she is trying to get me to stop doing.
I guess I just wanted people to know that I have become aware of the issue and am working on it. I do respect the rules and boundaries here and trust the mods to keep things safe for everyone.
This part is just problematic and being encouraged by someone IRL for less than stellar reasons. Trying to break that tie too but it really messes with the system.