ofcourse not, why turn this into a mean spirited debate? I believe what I believe based only on my narrow field of experience. I am a mere 22, I don't know a thing. But I do not that I am not Bi. So I especially can't speak for people who think they are. I just wonder what it feels like to "feel" that it's something intrinsic in you, something that you cannot change, or that is out of your control. All I am saying that if it is within your control, and that you are merely deciding to choose that life-style, then that is what is wrong and unrealistic. I have no clue about the clinical or genetic studies regarding Homosexuality/Bi-Sexuality--or their validity. I am merely speaking of the matter on a choice/preference basis. And, yes, again, if you choose, I suppose that is your right. But all I am saying is, there should be standards in our conduct. But hey, that's just me, what do I know? Am I being unreasonable?