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Originally Posted by XxPrObLeMxcHiLdxX
It started with a joke and now it's a whole big mess. He wants to be FWB {Friends With Benefits}. He doesn't want a relationship and I'm completely fine with that. Though I've been hurt by guys before, being rushed into things I'm not okay with or ready for {I was sexually assaulted by an ex}. Like we don't really talk at school, but like out of school we've been spending a ton of time together. I've met his mom, been to his house a couple times and eaten dinner with him and his mom. And I've asked him before like I just thought I was some hook up, but he said that if I was just a look up he wouldn't have introduced me to his mom and if he wanted to date he would have probably already asked me out. I can tell him close to anything. And he told me a lot of very personal things.
We talked about what would happen if this became something and he just simply said "Ques sera sera" {Translates to "What happens happens"}
Were friends but like what am I supposed to do...  |
Beee careful! please! If he hasn't given you a particular reason as to why he hasn't asked you out and committed this can go on for a verrry very long time and it truly does feel worse and worse after the novelty wears off..believe me I just came out of a 3 year "FWB" situation and it mostly feels nothing short of degrading after a while.. and the sneaky relationship without a title..i've heard that one too it really is just a euphimism..AND the introduction to mom and immediate family of course. That'll get you everytime. I guaruntee you'll be completely fine..until you're not..and he draws up the contract rules. I know how bitter that sounds and believe me as I'm reading over what i typed i hear it too lol..but i've watched alot of friends go through this as well and it always seems empowering and easy because it seems like the norm now ..and it isn't! it just..sucks.