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Old Jan 23, 2011, 07:00 AM
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Hi ~ You don't say how old he is, but i suspect he's pretty young. he probably is feeling trapped, and is afraid of all the responsibility that comes from having a baby that relies on him. He probably doesn't want to be a father right now ~ he probably wants to still go out and have fun instead of having to get a job and pay for the baby's needs. I hope he's not blaming YOU because HE is responsible too!!!

All you can do is calmly ask him if you both can sit down and talk this over. Find out what is really bothering him and take it from there. Then if there IS a serious problem, see about couples counseling. God bless. Hugs, Lee